If you can't even keep your pants zipped, what right do you have to puff out your chest and self-righteously dump all the blame on your wife?
Your wife observed the virtues expected of a wife, supported her husband and raised your children, diligently served your parents, and took care of everything at home so you had nothing to worry about. Yet what she received in the end was your resentment and your heartless abandonment.
I only want to ask: what did the wife do wrong?
In this marital fortress controlled by feudal ethics, are you really the only victim?
Aren't women victims too?
Why must we women become sacrifices to feudal ethics?
If so, whom are we women supposed to resent?
You were pursuing freedom and opposing feudal dross. You weren't wrong. After all, the times were advancing, and people's minds were opening.
But as a true man, before pursuing your free love, please do one thing first: properly arrange the rest of your wife and children's lives.
They didn't control your life, nor did they bind your hands and feet. They weren't obstacles blocking your pursuit of freedom.
On the contrary, they were your responsibility, and your duty as a man.
A truly responsible man of noble character and morals would never selfishly think only of his own freedom and pleasure.
You were happy, your spiritual needs were fulfilled, and you lived in comfort.
Yet had you ever thought that an abandoned woman might be struggling through a bleak, freezing winter night with a child in her arms?
Su Qiao wrote three articles in one sitting.
One was titled "On a Man's Sense of Responsibility." It began with the questioning of a child abandoned by his father and directly condemned those morally rotten men of the present day