Ch. 362Lost Respect
Ming Yue’s big brother explained how people’s possessiveness and loss of respect can turn love and marriage into resentment, and urged partners to understand and cherish each other. He left Ming Yue with the advice that cultivation meant gaining the wisdom to face life and bring comfort to those around them.
- Ming Yue brought her big brother more beer and cigarettes so he would continue explaining his views.
- Ming Yue and her big brother discussed how possessiveness and neglecting respect could turn affection into attempts to control a partner.
- Her big brother described how spouses could trade accusations over money, housework, childcare, and family responsibilities until they considered divorce.
- Ming Yue asked whether ordinary people had any way to avoid such conflicts, and her big brother said they should preserve respect, fulfill their promises, and understand each other’s burdens.
- Her big brother said cultivation developed wisdom for facing life and widening one’s heart so others could feel at ease.