Ch. 201Chapter 201
Plot points and events
- During a family visit, Koukou asks for a very large toy airplane. Mrs. Gu promises to buy him one and jokingly raises the stakes by describing an extravagant version, prompting Xinxin to demand one too. Her mother gives in, while Mrs. Gu privately thinks Koukou has no need to compete with Xinxin.
- Qiao Wanqing’s extended family and Gu Jingzhi’s family reunite over lunch and quickly grow comfortable with one another.
- Qiao Wanqing observes Xinxin’s possessive, demanding behavior. Her parents indulge her and rarely enforce limits; after Xinxin destroys a dried-flower bouquet, Qiao Wanqing decides she would not want to raise a child that way.
- Later, Qiao Wanqing discovers Koukou has secretly filled his pockets with sweets, even after Gu Yanqing had already caught him doing so once. She and Gu Yanqing discuss how they want to guide his behavior and agree to look for parenting books.
Character developments and interactions
- Qiao Wanqing becomes more alert to differences in parenting after seeing Xinxin’s behavior. Rather than simply judging Koukou by her own standards, she wants to learn how to raise him thoughtfully.
- Gu Yanqing shares her concerns and agrees that parents should reflect on their influence instead of assuming their instincts are always right.
- Mrs. Gu is indulgent toward Koukou and playfully competes with Xinxin’s mother over the promised toy, though she has no real intention of buying the dangerous, oversized version she describes.
- Xinxin’s parents are affectionate and polite, but their reluctance to set firm boundaries leaves Xinxin’s possessiveness and disregard for others unchecked.
- Koukou is sweet but mischievous, secretly hoarding candy; his behavior gives his parents a chance to discuss what they should teach him.
Significant themes
- Parenting and boundaries: The chapter contrasts indulgence without correction with the parents’ desire to guide Koukou deliberately.
- Family relationships: A reunion between relatives who were once only loosely acquainted quickly becomes warm and convivial.
- Self-reflection: Qiao Wanqing and Gu Yanqing recognize that good intentions are not enough; they should stay attentive to their own habits and keep learning.