Ch. 142A couple's persuasion, an aristocratic clan's education: "Please subscribe and vote"
Xu Dejing struggled with her parents’ plan for her to marry Wu Tao, so Xu Dezhao advised her to learn more about the marriages and prospects of women in other clans. After speaking with Yang Ruiyao, Dejing left with more to consider about her future and the freedoms she might lose outside the Xu Household.
- Wu Rushan explained to Xu Dejing the risks women faced in aristocratic marriages, while Xu Mingyuan said she was expected to marry Wu Tao at eighteen but could refuse and lose the Xu Household’s protection.
- Xu Dezhao told Xu Dejing that Wu Tao would marry into the Xu Household and urged her to compare its support for women with the prospects available in other clans.
- Xu Dejing asked Xu Deling to accompany her to speak with Yang Ruiyao about arranged marriages and women’s lives in the Commandery Seat.
- Yang Ruiyao explained that clan interests often shaped marriages, that women without family influence could become concubines, and that aristocratic young masters commonly took concubines.
- Yang Ruiyao praised the Xu Household’s strict standards, and Xu Deling ended the conversation and left with Xu Dejing.