Yu Lin Bloodhawk stood absolutely firm on this matter. Anyone visiting his home could only take and use what he was willing to give them. They did not get to order him around, much less demand authority.
My house, my rules! Yu Lin Bloodhawk's thinking was simple: If you can live with it, stay. If you can't, get the hell out! Want to take it by force? Then blood will be spilled!
Yu Lin Bloodhawk believed that when these Human Refugees were homeless, starving, and constantly threatened with death, giving them a place to live, creating conditions in which they could eat their fill, and providing troops to protect them already fulfilled his humanitarian obligations.
Although none of what he provided was free, Yu Lin Bloodhawk still believed he had done them no wrong whatsoever! If they wanted more from him, things he was unwilling to give, then sorry! He could only ask them to leave. If they refused? Then he could only drive them out with blades and blood.
Likewise, if their presence threatened the interests of the High Elves, Yu Lin Bloodhawk would eliminate those threats ruthlessly and bloodily. No one else was allowed to encroach upon High Elf interests.
Perhaps some would say that Yu Lin Bloodhawk cared only about the High Elves, that he was incredibly selfish and racist! But Yu Lin Bloodhawk had never cared about such accusations. He believed that someone who would not even defend the interests of his own race and country had no right to speak of loving all humanity.
Fundamentally, someone who did not defend the interests of his race and country did not love either of them. No matter how many supposedly humanitarian deeds he performed, they were merely attempts to win fame and praise. To Yu Lin Bloodhawk,