Ch. 161Preparing the dowry
Key plot points and events
- Shen Zexi feels left out when An Chengyu boasts that he has a “wife”—Xu Baozhen, a girl he recently met and asked to marry him as part of children’s play. Frustrated, Shen Zexi leaves.
- Shen Mother reminds Shen Zexi that he promised to bring home a spouse before New Year. She explains that she and Shen Father worry his difficult past experiences with the Wu Family have made him wary of relationships.
- Shen Shixu, Xiao Jinyi, and the others reassure her that Shen Zexi may simply not have met the right person and should not be pressured.
- Shen Mother shifts her attention to preparing Shen Shixu’s dowry for his upcoming marriage to Xiao Jinyi. Jinyi explains the imperial household’s customary limits: the largest standard dowry is 126 loads, while Shen Shixu’s family has prepared far more.
- Shen Father clarifies that the family has saved for both sons since before their births, and Shen Shixu will also take his rewards and gifts. They do not want an oversized dowry to invite criticism.
- An Chengyu suggests making the chests larger. The family accepts the idea and commissions 126 oversized chests.
Character developments and interactions
- Shen Zexi is embarrassed and resentful at being the only one without a partner, while his mother’s reminder revives pressure to marry.
- Shen Mother and Shen Father reveal that their matchmaking concern comes from fear that Shen Zexi’s past has left him emotionally guarded. They also show how long and carefully they have prepared for their sons’ futures.
- Shen Shixu protects his brother from pressure and is surprised by the scale of his own dowry.
- Xiao Jinyi helps explain imperial customs and gently reassures the Shen parents about Shen Zexi.
- An Chengyu proudly announces his childlike “marriage” and later offers the practical solution that resolves the dowry problem.
Significant themes
- Family concern and patience: The Shen parents’ pressure comes from love, but Shen Shixu cautions that emotional healing and finding a partner cannot be forced.
- Marriage and social expectations: The chapter contrasts Shen Zexi’s reluctance with the family’s excitement over Shen Shixu’s wedding.
- Tradition versus practicality: Imperial dowry limits create a logistical challenge, which the family solves by adapting the containers rather than reducing what they wish to give.